The Book of Good Manners; a Guide to Polite Usage for All Social Functions by Walter Cox Green


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Page 81

ADDRESSING. When invitations are sent to a
husband and wife and daughter, only one envelope
is needed, the daughter's name appearing
under her parents. Separate envelopes
should be addressed to two daughters--as,
Misses Wilson.

Separate envelopes should be addressed to
each son.

MEN. If an invitation is sent to a man, he should
answer it himself; but if sent to a man and
wife, the latter may answer for both.

TO CALL WITH CHAPERONE'S PERMISSION. If
permission is asked, and if agreeable, a chaperone
should invite a man to call upon her and
her protege.

Every effort should be made to call at the
specified time.

TO CALL ON WOMEN. If a woman invites a man
to call without specifying the time, it is
equivalent to no invitation at all.

TO CALL ON WOMEN THROUGH LETTERS OF
INTRODUCTION. If a man having a letter
of introduction sends the same by mail to a
woman, it should be acknowledged by a written
invitation to call. If the person receiving
the letter does not care to receive the party, a
card is sent which ends the matter.

R. S. V. P. The use of these letters--standing
for "Repondez, s'il vous plait" (Answer, if you
please)--is decreasing. All invitations bearing
these letters should be answered at once.

These may be used on invitations to ceremonious
receptions, breakfasts, luncheons,
dinners, and to meet a prominent person.

WIFE. When a husband and wife are invited to
a dinner, and the former does not accept,
the wife should also decline and give her
reasons. The hostess can then invite the
wife only, who may accept.

WOMEN. A young woman receiving an invitation
to a man's supper, tea, or dinner, may
accept, if she has the consent of her mother
or chaperone, and is assured that a chaperone
will be present.

WOMEN--THEATRE. Women receiving an invitation
from a man for the theatre should have
the consent of mother or chaperone, and when
they accept, may, with propriety, request
their escort not to provide a carriage unless
full dress on their part is requested.

AFTERNOON TEAS. See AFTERNOON TEAS--INVITATIONS.
AFTERNOON TEAS (FORMAL)--INVITATIONS.

AT HOMES.
See AT HOMES--INVITATIONS.

BACHELORS' DINNERS.
See BACHELORS' DINNERS--INVITATIONS.

BACHELORS' TEAS.
See BACHELORS' TEAS--INVITATIONS.

BALLS.
See BALLS--INVITATIONS.

BREAKFASTS.
See BREAKFASTS--INVITATIONS.

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