The Book of Good Manners; a Guide to Polite Usage for All Social Functions by Walter Cox Green


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Page 114

CHAPERONE. A chaperone should always be
present if women are to be members of the
party. And if a stage or carriage calls for
the guests, it should call first for the
chaperone.

The chaperone who acts as hostess should
decide the hour to close the festivities.

DINNERS. If a dinner is given before the performance,
it is generally given at six o'clock,
the usual customs being followed. If preferred,
the dinner may follow the performance,
and may be given at any fashionable
restaurant or hotel. If it is given before the
play, at its termination the guests are conveyed
in carriages or stage to the theatre at
the expense of the host.

After the entertainment it is a good plan
for the party to return to the banqueting-room
to partake of slight refreshments.

DRESS. Men wear evening dress. Women wear
full evening dress.

INVITATIONS. He may invite his guests in person
or by note. In either case he should secure
the parents' permission to allow the
young women to attend, and should be ready
to supply all information regarding the men
who will be present, and also the chaperones.

MEN. The escorts should see the women home
unless they are called for by the male members
of their families, in which case they may
be accompanied to their conveyances. If a
young woman is called for by her maid in a
carriage, her escort may take her home.

Intimacy of the parties largely regulates
the etiquette of such occasions. They can
decide whether evening or street dress shall
be worn, and seat themselves accordingly.
A carriage should be provided.

When entering an opera or theatre box for
a short call, a man should stand and bow,
making some pleasant remark to the chaperone.
If there is an empty chair, he may sit
and talk a few minutes and retire as others
enter.

WOMEN. Between the acts it is perfectly proper
to go into the foyer with the escort, who
should carry the woman's wraps and see that
all her wants are attended to. Should she
desire anything, she should call on him first.

The hat or bonnet should be removed.

In a box the women occupy the front row
while the men sit or stand in the rear.

A woman should avoid conspicuous
manners, loud conversation, laughing, or acting
in any way to attract attention.

GIVEN BY WOMEN. This is a popular form of entertainment
during the season. They are
given by married women, and the guests are
invited by note. A dinner is given at the
house or at a restaurant before the departure
for the opera or play. Refreshments
may also be given after the entertainment at
either the house or restaurant. At the dinner
the same ceremonies are followed as to
arrangements of guests and escorts as at any
formal dinner.

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